8.You are just you
You should have realised by now that you are… you, right?
It might seem a silly thing to say, but most of us don’t realise that we should be proud and happy with who we are.
Stop trying to impress everyone and stop comparing yourself to others. If they don’t like you, maybe you’re better off without them.
I’m not saying act like you’re the best in the world, do whatever you want, and get on anyone’s nerves. No, that is plain stupid.
But be realistic. If you do good things and you care about others as well, then you should be happy with yourself. Of course, not everyone will like you, but that’s just life. Stop obsessing about that colleague that you think he or she hates you. They’re probably too busy thinking about themselves and their problems, that’s why they didn’t say hi to you the other day on the street.
Be proud of who you are and don’t change yourself to meet other people’s expectations. Be silly, laugh, have fun and enjoy life.
Are you a yes-kind-of-person? ->
